more of participation in corporate board..now a days women..

its not the scene few years back..

its more friendly environment faced...

the scenario changing...

talents are recognised than the gender..... :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

some questions...

---> male and female have same blood, feelings & heart., 

y a girl have to leave all her family and getting into unknown situation in name of marriage..without any sign of love between the guy and gal....

--->male and female have individuality.,

y a girl alone have to urges the domination and non privacy after a marriage...

--->male and female r equal individuals in their way.,

if a girl dares to come out of the family for her love,y not the guy... 

y no one says both should come out of thier family to make a self family for both of their happiness...

my questions are:

what wrong i did if i born as a female?

why i need to go under strom after a marriage?

if guys have the feeling for parents..y not the girl have feeling for her parents and stand behind them?

why should i face the emotional strom of supporting that male and disagreeing a female in other family?

y a female???!!!! :(

guy : hey, i love u...'i vil support u when u r right...bcos i want to support the right'

gal  : dats ok u support the right...but plz dont say 'u love me...'

guy : y?

gal  : hey, if u really love me..u really trust me as..'i am doing right to u and our life...'

          u could really feel the love when u really really trust me...

          der is no love without a trust....

    

         u cant bargain ur love whether right or wrong...

         u never say 'me', literally u say 'we face any situation'

         i say, 'i love u'

         i am giving the right to fall me down or pull me up...in ur hands...

         now am in ur hands..u can do me anything..support or anything...

         

guy : i cant get u..

gal  : u get it when u really start loving me...

terrorism...

the world itself shocked by this word..

yea..no people can move out without the fear of this today to world countries..

what happened in mumbai may happen for me and u tmrw..

cant bare this..

but the blast shows, how we r not presecured....since the attack happened in developed countries itself...we should have took precautions....

we should be much aware hereafter...

man, a salute to Indian commando and army,security people..

what a persons..determination....

we will over come the terrorism...

we will....

i cant be an dedicated army force..

but i have my faith to help in support for the world to be a peaceful place..

gr8 salute to 'INDIAN SECURITY FORCES'

even i was with u,

or

i may not with u

iam always with u...

u can say

der is other life other than u and i will be for dat,

i say u

der is no other life for me,even i need to be in dat

i had a dream for u,

i was living in thought of u,

i wil be with u...

even i am far,

even i am dead,

i am

with u..........

when my past

said me.,please out'

when my present 

orders me.,why you are here'

when my future 

reflects me.,a black hole of no support'

my heart traces a sound for you...

i want your hands....

your hands.,

for a long journey..

till my end...

kiss....

its more blissful.,
when a kiss happens..

to become a kid..

to be a free bird..

to feel the eternity...

slowly,

closely,

strongly,

...........................

we are the kiss....

and no more kissers!!!!

love is something...that..
love can be said as...
love is ????...

no explanations.....

love me :D:D:D:D:D:D:D

A friend.......

A friend means _ _ _ _ _ _ _

love

truth

companion

well wisher

kidding

fun

fights

opposition

sharer [even dresses]

advisors

commenters

joiners

never expects

--------->a friend allows to stay as what we are...

-------------->a friend never expects anything from us....

--------->a friend reminds as whereever we are...

-------------->a friend makes as to learn things in life....

--------->a friend gives us knowledge.....

-------------->a friend expects us to live good...

--------->a friend guides us in hard times....

-------------->a friend shares our problem....

--------->a friend stays where nobody is der....

this friend cums to our life in half and stays all the life....

this friend never laughs along with others at harder times...

this friend stays in our heart....
i am proud, dat i have many friends....and few friends are close to my soul....

proud to say 'i am a friend'

friend is the greatest relation which expects nothing...and never exploits...

i always love to call even my life partner to be a friend...

its a life long journey of friendliness....

any relation in life....stays long....only their heart is like a friend's heart.....

friendship is a silent relation which never expects to express the binding between them..they say,"i am just a friend of so and so"...

Hats off to friends and friendship!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

celebrating the art of friendship!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dance and music touches the heart of people....

without a dance or music...god!!!!!!!!!!!!

no one can survive...

i love to hear music..but dance is my passion :D:D:D:D:D

DANCE.....
its a state of joy..its a launguage of godliness....its a enthustiatic time...its energitic..its something awesome...

no words to express my love to it..

i love all types of dance...western,classics....anything towards dance...

a dance express a complete state of joy...

i learned bharatham at my young age....also i dance amoung my friends or when am alone....

iam sure of learning it proper, in future...and my passion is endless...:):):):):)

Dance means life to me...

parents want their children to be scared of them,

...saying that chlidren need to obey them....

--->obey-their language of obedience...

teachers want their students to be scared of them,

...saying that their students to obey the rules...

--->obey-their language of obedience..

boss want their labours to be scared of him/her,

...saying that their labours to obey their conditions...

--->obey-their language of obedience..

scaring may be done through many ways...

---------------------------------------violance

-----------------------------------------crying

-------------------------------------------obey laws

---------------------------------------------disguising

-------------------------------------------------sometimes smile

----------------------------------------------------pleasing words

-------------------------------------------------------emotions

I always belive in endless freedom....
freedom is the birth right of every single living being...
occuping others...particularly[own children] will exploit them....parents are just guardians for a child from a god..

freedom is the ultimate scope for a beautiful..enthustiatic..energitic world....

awareness helps in identifying people and situations....

where u r aware, u will not scare.... :):):):):):):):):)

change changes...but never changes!!!!!



time changes....but der is no fixed time in nature..





people changes....but der is no change in people..they are followers...




culture changes....but nothing is called culture...its a common following to set people...




change changes everyone, everyone may or may not change....but change changes...even people not changes...




changes changes bcos of uncertainity....but their is nothing called change bcos earth is certain...




change changes...but never changes!!!! :D:D:D:D:D:D:D

a gal baby wants her dad to keep in shoulder,play and laugh...:D:D:D:D:D:D

a little gal wants her daddy to help her in homeworks and play...

a small gal wants her father to take care of her morethan anyother....

a young gal wants her dad to hug her and keep away her confusions...:D:D:D

a teen gal wants her father to help her for future dreams...

a pretty 20 gal wants her dad to give hands for her to achive her dreams and aims...;););)

a young lady wants her daddy to discuss about her boyfriend..B)

a women wants her daddy to show love and smile at her hard times...:):):):)

a gal wants her dad to say 'u r my same little1 evenafter your 30's' ......:D:D:D:D:D:D

Serials OR Serial killers!!!!!!!!!!!!


SERIALS.............

any television channels can survive high in ratings only because of this?!

oh...god..how come television peoples can show a high rating for a serials...its the psychological way of attacking the people behaviour....

mrni times : serials for ladies[mother in law or second wife fights]
even times: serials for kids[all magics]
night times: serials for family [serials related to family fighting]
late night : sentiment serials....


:D:D:D:D:D:D


these TV people handling the issues of people and their psychological nature for their money...



hmm....lets see where it goes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

u r a wind crossed my being in sec...
i got passion for ur heart....
what is my wrong to my love...
its my dream for a life to be a love for u..
my heart felt a pain of death....
ur unsaid words made me to know who r u....

but once lost is lost....

while i thinking of writing the blog today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!






i had a thought of 'y blog today...




y blog today?!!!!!

y because i am thinking of writing something....





y i think of writing something....




y because i am wrinting daily...





y i am writing daily....





y because i am feeling of writing daily...




y i am feeling of writing daily....

y because i am thinking of writing something...

y i think of writing something....

y because i am writing daily...

y i am writing daily....

y because i am feeling of writing daily...

y i am feeling of writing daily....

y because......

y y y y y u look like this?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Chicken Briyani....

you know briyani is almost abt more than 49 types....i learnt cooking briyani[i tried 1 type only B)B)B)] in a good way very recently....

Since my hubby is very intersted vit briyani's, i was in a mood of learning it proper...and i got it very perfect almost [90%]

its very intersting to learn new recepies and trying it out :) : ) : )..this receipe i learnt from http://www.vahrehvah.com/ :D:D:D

its simple but need to cook very conciously...somehow we[both me and my hubby] managed to cook with the limited vessels,what we have now...:D :D :D

i felt very happy after a gud try of doing it....

plus after my briyani are:

good taste

good looking

pakka hyderabad style briyani

minus sides are:

high oil content

need to cook much lighter and perfect more than this...

this is my 1st devali...




ya...1st devali...after my marriage...


specially i dreamed for something with all grand things in hindu systems...which is gr8ly missed as such me and my hubby now located in london...


ok :D let me say my arrangements behind my' sorry [:D] 'our' [me n my hubby] thalai devali..

1st thing is prepared 'rava ladoo' came sumhow ok..
2nd thing is gajar halwa 'really came well'
3rd thing is 'vada'...
4th thing is going to be[vil say abt it later]...hyderabadi chicken briyani

and ve both prayed..weared new dresses...shared wishes to both of our families...friends...

i feel for my guy... :)

since it was 1st devali...
he cant able to show his 'bridegroom's style and extra domain' :D :D :D :D in ds devali....
:)

her side : as parents we want our gal to be get married to good character,earning,good family boy...

his side : as parents we want our boy to be get married to good character,earning[now a days],good family gal...

her side: how much you expect from us?!

his side: we dont think of expectations...u put as such what u do for ur gal....

                 

few days later...marriage is been fixed....

gal and boy started communication...

her side :we put 100 pounds...and all extra things..

his side : u dont need to give do all extra things...why are you spending so?...

her side: how do and when i send 100 pounds with our gal..let us talk...

his side: you dont worry at all...give all 100 pounds to me in my hands..i take care[bride grooms mother]

her side:?!!!!!!!!!!!

this is the fact happening around every marriage....and the marriage named as divine.....

we can assume here whether it going to be divine or hell for the gal...

marriage proves everywhere as practical bargain in my eyes....which could be seen by all....

i see marriage is named divine, but treated as PROVEN BUSINESS....

ooo..u asking about my marriage?!

uusssssssssssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhh?!!!!!!!!!!!

Manithuligal sinthika marapathaal...nashtangal ethanai yoo?!!!!...

manithuligal sinthipathal....mattrangal sillavavathu' varum...
enkindra nambikaiyil...


Pirappal nanum oru 'tamizhachi'...enbathal urimaiyodu..pesukiren....


"izhathil tamil nanbarkal padum thuyaram ayiram ayiram...
thuyarathirku arasiyal[politics] sayam pusapaduvathu megha periya thuyaram...
arasiyal varnam.. illa vittal kuda ,vuthavum karangal' vara koodum....
anaal 'kaikodukirom endru solli...verum kural kodupathu murai alla'....
tamizhan thuyarapadukiran endru solpavargal yarum thuyarathil illai....
thee kul erupavar vethnaiyaei...vellyae erupavar arivathillai....
mukiyamaga vunarvathillai...
pesuvatharku yarum thevai illai..itho nanum pesukiren....."

vuthava mudipavargal...vuthva edavadu kudi pesi seyallam...
kuttam nadatha selavu seyum kasai[money]...Izhathil thavipavar oruvarai yavadu meetka vudavalam...


'arasiyal varnanai mattrum kural kodupavargal' tamizhan vazhvuku, entha vithathilum vuthava povathu ellai...



yenbathai manithuligal' nam sinthipom......

there are certain rules for VARUTHAPADATHA VALIBAR SANGAM'....

rule: 1

am always right....

rule: 2

when you accept this, u r also right.....

rule: 3

i may go wrong....

if u think so.,

i agree...

rule 1........

ennaya epo?!

every1 have an idea for their own life...
their wish...their nature...their attitude and wish....


same something is for me?
i am positive..
i am negative..
i have anger on something ...
i love something....
i feel free in my alone..
sometimes my alone is becoming lonely.....

why what are these fluctuations?....
why i cant be stable....

i cant allow dominations....
i cant allow imitations....
sometimes some confusion....
when i was alone before a year...confusion...
now am with my partner...still confusions?!....

why?


whats happenning in me?

i searched
am searching...
and it continues...

i can say me like this.....

a gal who suppose to live more individually...unconditionally...loving..loved..
who aspires for own earning....
who depends for loving and loved....
never like to disturb others..and never wanted to disturbed by others....at any point of time...
questioning..whats life...and whats in it....
belives in living now and then....


and my search continues....
i dont think living with weakness is wrong...sometimes i want to overcome it..
but you know i cant suceed in it...

but waiting..
listening...
loving...

my search continues...

...................................................unconditionally....,

Me and my hubby planned for a trip to Edinburgh scotland...last month...we pre-booked tickets for our tour inorder for coviniance...



while I was in India i have plans to visit Scotland..but its a dream left out for me to a trip...I felt its a dream dat accoplished now...we both have other couple joined the tour...



By viewing the beauty of the city we entered Edinburgh...we freshen up ourselves...

straight away we came for tourist information center for gaining details for visiting places around....by de time ve took photographs too...



Me and my hubby were talking on some topic like..when India become a devloped nation...and the other couple around looking for details..to roam...we took a bus pass for that day...we catched a bus and went to the place of stay..which we already booked...

We booked for bread and breakfast....unfortunately we got single room...but we where 4 of them..but thinking of adjusting[after screaming my hubby only] we stayed togethor...but it is comfortable only...

Its aalready now noon for us now...we where in hurry to hit the road..we 1st went to edinburgh zoo...it look like very small builing...but its realy amazing when we went inside...lot of animals..we saw dolphin parade toooo....my hubby enjoyed the day very well..ofcourse me tooo...

...so its nearing night now..we where out of zoo...we had some english luch inside zoo...so we decided of eating someother tasty food...as i was veggie i didnt prefer anything...other 3 prefered to eat fish and chips...so i go some veggie pizza....[unfortunately our dinner too horriable.. :( ]

its chilling out so we people board local buses and roamed the city in bus itself for an hour...why because we where in the plan of going ghost tour...we got tickets for that tooo already....but that ghost tour wasnt much intersting..since i cant get the english slang which dy spoke...its all abt the old history of scotland...and they took inside some dark rooam[i dont think of worth paying in ghost tour]..but any way its intersting an something new for us..my hubby explained me the things... :)

...so its aroud 11.30 we came and slept...waked 7 in next day mrni.....

we had our breakfast in the place of stay and we moved for edinburgh castle..we too lots of snaps..also the castle was realy good......

the intersting evening came now..we went portabello beach..which is something really cool...we played..played..played..and enjoyed...time flyed...now its really night for us..its also hungry...so we have an idea of taking some Indian food..and entered Indian hotel..ahh..good food..nice service[but great cost.. :)] so happy...now time to leave...and broard a bus for London..ha...we said tattta..to edinburgh....a nice trip..and experience... :)